Anju here. Strap in and grab some popcorn, listeners, because we’ve got a big episode for you this week! We bring in a new guest host to help us tackle a complicated topic: sex, lies, and family within the Desi community. Along the way, Puja stumbles across a new catchphrase:
“I like chocolate in my chai.” – Puja
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Our guest host this week is my cousin, Priya, a PhD student in microbiology at the University of Texas who’s going to cure Ebola someday, probably, and also someone way more fiercely confident in her own skin than any of us. We ask about her origin story, Shitty Indian points, and the time she spent in an ashram in India.
This episode, we delve into the taboos on discussing sex and romantic relationships within Desi families and whether that comes from religious or cultural stigmas (spoiler: we don’t know). We also discuss how the prohibition on dating means our flirt game is terrible and Priya offers to school us in the arts. Plus: the difference in acceptability of interracial relationships with white people versus black people, reconciling with queerness, and how we feel about the prospect of marriage. Whee!
Believe it or not, we had even more to say on this subject but we decided to take mercy on you guys and leave the rest for another day.
Stay Tuned For Part Two!
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